The Paradox of Self and Compatibility in Community
/What a time to be alive!
I say often that self-love overflows. It is, I believe, the only way for our world to truly heal in harmony—for each of us to step into our own individual sovereignty. As it is in knowing, healing and honouring ourselves, that all we contribute to the world is an overflow of that love. Whether it’s in conscious interaction or in subconscious emission of the energy we’re cultivating within ourselves. That individual sovereignty is key to recognizing and honouring it in others, and thus in recognizing the our connection, and the necessity of harmony with, all else.
Now, I also speak a lot on compatibility, and that is another arm of this paradox. Love does not say that all of us are all friends all the time. True love honours what fits and what does not. In honouring this, when we are truly authentic, we then give our energy to connecting with those we are compatible with. That is where we grow and expand optimally. Because even those we’re not compatible with are connecting with those they align with and adding their own love energy to the world. When we are embraced in love, we add that to the world. Harmony then means “live and let live”, even if we are distant from some and closer to others. In fact, it is likely because we have honoured compatibility in this way. Our energy is focused on love.
It simply begins within. A lovely paradox, I’ve found.
I almost never hear it spoken, but here’s a video of a conversation held by Pam Gregory and Heather Ensworth, two women I truly admire in their capacity to hold that frequency of love, no matter what is happening in the world. May you find just what you need, here.
Embracing what resonates and releasing what does not, with my shared insights and everything external to yourself.
In love, light and shadow, embracing all aspects of ourselves 🌺 Crystal-Marie Sealy
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About Crystal-Marie
Crystal-Marie Sealy, MBA, is a dedicated mom, first, a two-time best-selling author and keynote speaker. She occasionally offers paid virtual keynotes for women and author readings for children. Crystal-Marie's focus is "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" through self-acceptance, intuition and the feminine, honouring individual sovereignty. Her first children's book, "The Brave Little Puffer Fish Authenticity for Children", has rave reviews and a five-star rating on Amazon, and she has recently published her second children's book, “Edmus and Ferdmus Leave Home Mindfulness for Children”. Previously, as strategy consultant, president and founder of Crystal-Marie Sealy—previously Successiory (2011-2019)—Crystal-Marie's signature "Mindful Entrepreneurship for Mindful Affluence™" empowered service and intuition-based professionals, but this service is currently on hold. Connect with Crystal-Marie, if this resonates with you and your audience, at www.CrystalMarieSealy.com