Reciprocity and Free Will
/"Forced reciprocity is Not free will... so it won't last. Let flow attract those who come naturally, as you focus on the goal." --- Crystal-Marie Sealy ❤💐 Originally posted here - www.instagram.com/p/BSV2ziEh6y_ on the morning of April 1, 2017.
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"I get the desire, the expectation, that those you call your community, your tribe to some, would connect with and share your initiatives. Still, if you remain true to yourself in each moment, can you honestly say that you're naturally drawn 100% to each of theirs? Be true to yourself, now. Can you really?
If you're truly living authentically, and honouring the right of others to do the same - honouring their (& your own) free will and right to sovereign self-governance - you'll probably see quite clearly right now that you (& they) are so richly in the flow of living their truth, that only in a small % of initiatives, will you Truly be "in the same place". The #beauty of #Authenticity is that #diversity of discovery, of self and initiatives. Be it #business, #events, #ideology or #Mindset - simply BE and let your community and tribe Be as well. Let what comes naturally happen. This is how we expand our collective knowledge organically, by letting each of us go off to discover our own path, then come back and share our learnings.
Abundance means those who need exactly what you're offering or sharing in this moment Will find you, if you expect them too. It means if "reciprocity" happens, you're elated, but that when it doesn't, there is no resentment. You're still elated because "all is as it should be", always.
Here's to your peace of mind in accepting what Is - in your tribe, and within yourself. This speaks to needing external validation as well. I wish for you to be free of that - to set, allow and celebrate your own perspectives of #Success. 💐Congrats in advance!"
I hope I've somehow inspired you to stop getting irritated that "after I shared her event, the least she could do is follow mine", and start perhaps seeing that "I'm so happy to be surrounded by people who love me, and to be a safe space where my friends can freely share, follow, comment on, what comes naturally to them." I'd love to hear how embracing this level of self awareness works for you in practice. Let me know!
Warmly, in love and light,
Crystal-Marie S.