Live Out Loud Everyday Starting Today

I will start by thanking +Fast Company for their Google Plus post, 

There Are 5 Types Of Boredom. Which Are You Feeling?

, and +Michael A Wells, for his response, that he feels #4 everyday. Life is far too short for all of us to be imprisoned in 'existence' by our own minds. 

You have imprisoned yourself. How are you going to change it?

As someone who starts most things by thinking, planning or making lists, I say:

  1. Create your vision: be it a vision board, a bucket list or one thing you always wanted to do.

  2. Find out what it takes: brainstorm the list of steps you'd honestly need to take to make your vision a reality - time, energy, resources, activities, mindsets, everything you can think of.

  3. Get organized: arrange this list in order of feasible timelines, categories or any pattern that makes it easy for you to follow. If it's overwhelming; simplify. Include 'change mindset'; eliminate your "I can't". 

  4. Talk to yourself: seriously. you may or may not have a support system to help you along, so you are your support system. Throughout the process, remind yourself daily of where you're going.

  5. Take micro-steps: leap where you can, but start with baby steps (one day at a time). Remember, a habit takes 21-30 days to be formed, or broken.

  6. Track your progress: whether it's a physical journal, a digital checklist from your "Get organized" section, or your own invention, use something to track what you've accomplished along the way.

  7. Pray: I include this because it's on my personal list, but whatever you believe, step back from your current situation to look at the big picture - the possibilities are endless when you're looking from afar. 

Dreams are big, and

anything worth something takes work.

 Reward yourself along the way to stay motivated. You've seen this 100, maybe more, times in your life, in various forms.

Just Do It.

This may be an iterative process, if you do it right. You may start small, but as you do more introspection, you'll start realizing there's no reason to dream small.

This is WINTER but SPRING is coming - Are You Ready?

After I write this post, I'm going to continue implementing as well. I've already started with my

Vision Board on Pinterest

(thanks to the advice of my friend Paulina N.) [You can see my other boards at the link provided, but my actual Vision Board is private.]

Some inspirational reading:

I specifically point to the books, not the authors. You may not appreciate the authors or support many of the philosophies presented, but at least they get you to dream a bit bigger:

  1. The Art of Non-Conformity by Christopher Guillebeau

  2. The 4-Hour Work Week by Timothy Ferriss

Note:

Returning to the article that prompted this post, a word to all generations - X, Y, Z, Baby Boomers, etc -

live and let live.

Stop attacking each other, in particular, stop attacking the

Millennials (Generation-Y).

Their economic reality includes

a whole lot of "NO":

no job stability,

no jobs if not self-created,

no salary that can fund home ownership

in this lifetime,

and a number of other realities that the other generations haven't had to deal with. Perhaps the parents of the Baby Boomers get it. If you destroy the confidence of the next generation because you have to "put them in their place", there'll be no one left to take care of you. The "arrogance" and "entitlement" is perhaps what they need to survive their reality.

Crystal-Marie Sealy

Mom First • Author • Keynote "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" | Authenticity. Self-acceptance. Intuition and the Feminine.

Welcome to "Conversations with Crystal-Marie", honouring your individual sovereignty. Embrace what resonates, release what doesn't.

I'm Crystal-Marie Sealy. Get to know me here. Once you're comfortable, let's see:

✓ How I can support you more deeply here.

✓ How my keynote can best serve your audience.

✓ How my book(s) support you best.

If you are open to attracting an easier lifestyle, whether based on health or values, you'll find insights around:

​✓ Authenticity for Gentle Resilience. Embracing all of who you are, without apology or resentment of those who don't get it. Compatibility and individual sovereignty are key.

✓ The Feminine. Embracing the true feminine, maiden to crone. Dispelling myths, including those around the shadow, not toxicity. Intuition is key.

In ease, ebb and flow, love, abundance, possibility.

crystalmariesealy.com (previously successiory.ca)

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Pinterest, More than Pictures

Hi Readers,

I've fallen in love with 

Pinterest

.  I know I work in social media, but 

Pinterest

 is absolutely great. It's great for visual addicts and ADD pinners, but it's an amazing source of inspiration and project support as well.

Hopefully this will whet your pinning appetite.

Travel Example: 2013 Niagara Falls, Ontario, Canada

Wardrobe Updates

I'm unusual in that I don't enjoy shopping - for anything.  If you rarely see anything you like, Pinterest can restore your faith in fashion.  Pins (images) are often from other websites. Tracking pin websites can mean new places to shop. Pins also help if you want to redefine your wardrobe - new stage of life, passion for a new range of colors, change in taste.  Pins I like:

Whether your challenge is that (a) you don't like/absolutely love color, (b) you have "wine taste on beer budget" or (c) cuts, styles or sizes just never fit quite right, Pinterest will surprise you.

Getting Organized

As a perfectionist who's learnt to let go, this aspect of Pinterest literally leaves me drooling. Dominique Nancy inspired the list below, the last of which was pinned from

http://www.bhg.com

. Living in a big city means even neat freaks and minimalists have a hard time!

Pins give tips on organizing small spaces.

Pinterest for Men

I keep hearing that men aren't on Pinterest - but that's not been my experience.  Unless these are conspiratorial women, here are some men - and men's pins - on Pinterest.

Maybe it's not the majority, but it still seems like there are many

pins for men by men

, to me.

These are just three areas - I haven't even begun to explore

travel

,

color

themes,

photography

and home projects -

interior decor

and

architecture

from around the world - not to mention quotes.

Perhaps I'll do one on

Houzz

, soon - another picture-focused social site.  Happy pinning!

Crystal-Marie Sealy

Mom First • Author • Keynote "Authenticity for Gentle Resilience" | Authenticity. Self-acceptance. Intuition and the Feminine.

Welcome to "Conversations with Crystal-Marie", honouring your individual sovereignty. Embrace what resonates, release what doesn't.

I'm Crystal-Marie Sealy. Get to know me here. Once you're comfortable, let's see:

✓ How I can support you more deeply here.

✓ How my keynote can best serve your audience.

✓ How my book(s) support you best.

If you are open to attracting an easier lifestyle, whether based on health or values, you'll find insights around:

​✓ Authenticity for Gentle Resilience. Embracing all of who you are, without apology or resentment of those who don't get it. Compatibility and individual sovereignty are key.

✓ The Feminine. Embracing the true feminine, maiden to crone. Dispelling myths, including those around the shadow, not toxicity. Intuition is key.

In ease, ebb and flow, love, abundance, possibility.

crystalmariesealy.com (previously successiory.ca)

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